Committing Your Wife to the Cuckold Lifestyle

I need for you to pay attention to my words, white boi.  What you desire to venture into is more than you can ever bargain for.  This is something that will change you both. It will enhance your sexual desire for each other more. But you both need to be in the proper frame of mind that it doesn’t come out negative for you both.

I say this because all your insecurities and petty jealousies are bound to come out, so you and her need to first come to terms with your feelings individually and as well together so you both get to be on the same page.

You need to come clean, tell her how much you feel, how much you love her and whether you’re willing to support her venturing into this lifestyle.  But most importantly, you need to come clean with yourself: ask yourself if you really want this for her and how much you’re willing to go the distance with supporting her in this.

A cuckold’s job is to support his wife and help her discover her sexual self.  If the idea of you seeing her getting fucked by another man is bound to make you upset or jealous, then best let it be know before you go any further.

There’s going to be that possibility, I won’t lie about that. One thing to note is that it’s often hard to find suitable Black men for wives.  Don’t believe the hype you might read about on various cuckold sites.  I’ve corresponded with many couples, even several in your state, that complain that there’s lack of genuine black men around.  Most online are talkers, some are even white men pretending to be black. I know this.

The reason I’m saying this is you might have to go an extra mile to find a black man whom would be suitable for her, not just someone to fuck and leave.  Most couples seek lovers for long-term relationship as it will help the wife become more confident over time with embracing her sexuality.

You might ask if it's ever possible your wife might get to fall in love with her lover.  The answer is yes.  In this lifestyle, there are little to no safety nets and seldom any guarantees that such won't become possible.  As time goes on and your wife becomes further susceptible to her lover's charms and seductions, there’s every chance she will develop strong emotions for him; the same will go with you.  However, as long as the three of you get involved with each other on a friendly as well intimate level, there’s every chance that her love for him will actively make her more content with choosing this lifestyle.