What the Cuckold Wants, Pt. One

"It is simply a thrill without compare to watch your wife getting fucked by Her Lover." (Happy cuckold).

Most cuckolds are kind and considerate husbands and say they love their wives and want them to be sexually satisfied "more than anything else in the world." One cuckold hubby said "it is a real release of pressure to know that my wife is getting sexually satisfied by Her Lover in a way that I couldn't do it." Another said he wanted nothing more than his sexy wife "to be fucked properly."

Though the wife's sexual satisfaction is paramount, most cuckold hubbies want to get something out of it too. If there was one thing that emerged over and over in surveys and discussions, it was how cuckolds want to participate, if sometimes only indirectly, in their wives' hot liaisons with Her Lover(s). Watching, listening, licking, sucking, and sometimes participating jointly turn many on, even if it is only "sloppy seconds" or a taste of "cream pie". Even in the extreme, if they stay home cleaning the kitchen floor with a scouring brush in their mouth while wearing frilly hot pink panties while their wives are getting their brains fucked out by large-cocked Lovers, they often want to at least hear about their wife's exploits when She returns. This doesn't always involve sexual activity. As one cuckold said, "I need sexual attention, not necessarily sexual activity." Without participation at some level, hubbies may feel it is less like a cuckold lifestyle and more like cheating. Wives would be smart to pay attention to cuckold hubby's needs also, perhaps telling by his erection or his ardour to identify what he enjoys the most.

   

Even in those cases where the wife sees Her Lover alone, hubby can still participate by making his wife irresistible by buying Her a sexy new outfit and getting Her ready for a romantic night out. Some of the things he might help do for Her include: bathing and dressing, freshening up Her makeup and nail polish, shaving Her legs and pussy smooth for Her Lover, applying bright red or pink lipstick and shiny lip gloss, fluffing and combing Her hair, massaging Her, licking Her pussy into a slutty state of arousal, getting a room for them if Her Lover is not bringing Her home, driving Her to meet Her Lover, etc. She may let hubby participate by calling hubby while Her Lover is ravishing Her and telling him what they are doing and even letting him listen in. At the very least, he may get to orally service Her later and hear about Her Lover's sexual prowess (even superiority) and Her intense pleasure with him. Many men are basically voyeurs and they love seeing, listening, or even just hearing about a sexually charged woman in the throes of sexual ecstasy. As some cuckolds put it, "There is nothing more exciting than a woman in ecstasy with Her Lover," and "She makes sounds with him that I never hear when She is with me."

Part of that voyeurism is having their wives dress provocatively and be a bit of an exhibitionist. It turns them on when their sexy wife teases and flirts with them and other men and openly flaunts Her sexuality while dressed in "slut" attire like short minis, transparent or no panties, "fuck me" high heels, thigh-highs, and see-through tops that give Her Lovers easy access. As will be discussed in a future instalment on jealousy, flirting like this is a very natural activity for women. Studies show that they are more than twice as likely to do it than men. Women have used it for millennia to show their high desirability as mates and to increase their husband's commitment to the relationship.

Many cuckold hubbies also love seeing their wives turned on by a better or more endowed aggressive Lover. One hubby with a small 4" cock said that his wife got so aroused She was "like a faucet" with Her well-endowed 10" Black Lover and that he "brings Her to multiple orgasms every time." Another said, "She gets nastier with a big cock, rolls Her eyes back in Her head, and screams for more when She cums."

  

Some cuckolds are naturally submissive and like being sexually denied or controlled by a dominant or slightly dominate wife. One cuckold said, "Being locked up in chastity for a week at a time heightens my sexual desires to a level I can't describe." If the poll statistics on chastity are right, nearly 20% of cuckolds are chastised. A few wives may allow intercourse but make their hubby wear a condom while giving the privilege of cumming inside them exclusively to Her Lover. Some cuckold hubbies may simply be denied intercourse altogether. One cuckold said that he is "relegated to licking my wife's pussy and jerking off." Others are not even allowed to masturbate without their wife's permission. As will be discussed later, this has the effect of making them very attentive and doting husbands.

Some also enjoy being subservient to both the wife and Her Lover and some like it when their wife is dominant toward him and submissive to Her Lover-even to the point of becoming a "slut" for Her Lover. Taken to the extreme and having someone be in total control of his wife sexually can be a real turn-on for some cuckolds. One cuckold said he was extremely excited by his wife's Bull directing Her to wear a slutty transparent outfit while entertaining the Bull's friends at a football watching party. He said, "I love it when my wife becomes a total slut to another man."

In fact, having the wife become totally addicted to "big Black cock" is a powerful fantasy for many white cuckolds. Some even go out of their way to have their wife seduced and turned into a "100% Black cock slut" who "never goes back." Even if She is not into this as much as Her kinky hubby, the wife may fuel his fantasy by pretending to be.

Other things that turn many cuckolds on are little humiliations like comments about his dick size or sexual inadequacy compared to Her Lover, or having to do things like getting the extra-large condoms for Her Lover, chauffeuring with his wife and Her Lover in the back seat, getting them a hotel room, washing Her Lover's car, fixing dinner for them or going out for pizza and beer while his wife is "taken to heaven" by Her Lover. A dose of humiliation toward the cuckold hubby seems to be a hallmark of the cuckold lifestyle. 

This sometimes includes public exposure of his cuckold status. For example, watching his wife dance and flirt unmercifully in front of him at a bar, or having Her introduce Her Lover to his co-workers as Her "very special friend" at an office party and spending the entire evening on Her Lover's arm. One cuckold hubby was extremely turned on by the thought that his friends from work would find out about his cuckold status and realize that they could fuck his wife too, saying, "If that happens, there would be nothing I could do about it."

Perhaps though, one of the strongest humiliations for some cuckolds is being called a sissy-even being made to dress like one or being feminized. Most cuckolds are not Gay, or even bi-sexual, but there are some who enjoy the humiliation of being forced into a bisexual act with their wife's Lover. In addition to being a delicious humiliation for them, it seems to serve a practical purpose too. As one cuckolding wife put it, "When my Lover sees my husband in frilly petticoats, makeup, and heels, and when I tell him to suck my Lover's cock hard and he does it like the sissy he is, then my Lover is no longer concerned about an irate husband. In fact, it excites him even more and I get better sex from it!" It also gives a cuckold a good excuse to not "act like a man" and protest the fucking of his wife. After all, he IS a sissy while dressed like one, not a "real" man. 

A few very dominant wives may even turn their cuckold hubbies into a sissy maid doing all the household chores. Not just the traditional male ones of taking out the trash or mowing the lawn, but cooking, sewing, washing dishes, dusting, mopping, vacuuming, making the bed, doing the laundry, etc. (Though there are some wives who draw the line at laundry since they believe that when it comes to laundry "men just don't get it"). One formerly macho hubby turned into a sissy maid by his dominant wife said that he would have "bet a million dollars" beforehand that he would not have liked being a sissy. Now he is a perfectly trained sissy maid and says he is very proud of it and gets a lot of pleasure from it that he didn't expect, even taking pride in how well he can suck the cock of his wife's Lover for their enjoyment!