Embracing Your Cuckold Desires

You never knew how much your woman would learn to accept the urge of cuckolding you with a lover. Seriously.

That thought never before occurred to you until the day you eventually decided to let her in on your fantasy secret. A secret you’ve been mooning over in the back of your mind for so long a time. A secret you’ve shared with nobody else out of fear that society might consider you delusional and downright crazy. However, it wasn’t until you put your ear to the ground, began surfing the internet, visiting adult forums and corresponding with others via social media, and then you began to learn that such secrets aren’t only yours to keep.

You came to realise that myriad of husbands out there just like you harbour similar wish for their wives/girlfriends. Some of them have taken the bold step of revealing this secret to their women with variety of results. But some of them, (matter of fact, many of them, including yourself) are yet to broach this subject. Matter of fact, the thought of even letting out your secret frightens you even more than the thought that your woman might actually gravitate towards accepting your wish for her.

Fear can be debilitating. The cure for such lies in action. But before taking action, you must first learn to embrace your desire. Your cuckold urge, if you will. This desire can never work for you if you’re incapable of opening yourself to it.

By opening yourself, you must first learn to admit the raw truth to yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror and speak to yourself these salient words:

I want what’s best for my wife/girlfriend;

I desire her to make a cuckold of me;

I will do whatever I can to make it happen,

As well assist her and her would-be lover in any means possible.

Admitting this truth to yourself helps you with accepting your cuckold urge as your own, and not making you appear phony about it. This is important because for plenty of husbands/boyfriends out there, the thought of their woman ever agreeing to indulge in this lifestyle might appear outrageous. However, your wife will need to see that desire in you before she can admit to ever thinking of such.

What many husbands might not be aware of is that like them, their wives, too, have at one point or another in their lives garnered a secret wish of being with another man. Only the thought of the negative recriminations deterred them from ever making such happen. That’s not to say some haven’t dared, or even if they don’t, that the thought won’t stop existing in the back of their minds. For many husbands, the thought of their wives cheating on them is simultaneously worrying yet exciting. What better measure to have than displaying all your secrets out like cards on a table for each other to read and be aware about.

Once you’re capable of communicating this desire across to her, whether directly or via subtle means, she’s bound to embrace your desire as a part of herself. Depending on how capable you are of letting her become aware of your thoughts: the need to see her lost in the arms of a more dominant lover, and making her understand that how much it’s bound to enlighten and strengthen your love towards her, this would in turn give her to necessary encouragement to delve into this lifestyle with you by her side. And it will as well unleash to hidden memories she once had about wanting to cheat on you, and further eliminate whatever secrets you both might have kept from each other before then.

Cucks are not expected to have any shame in their desire of wanting what’s best for their women. Instead they should learn to accept their stance when the time comes that they, along with their spouse, succumb to the inevitable of wanting a lover/Black Dom to come and take charge/ownership of their women as well entrench the husband further in his submissive position.

Just as a husband wants what’s best sexually for his wife, so, too, he should make not of what’s best for him as her husband, and a third: what’s best for both of them as a cuckold couple.

All of this begins with first learning to accept your cuckold wants and desires. And then making sure your wife gets onboard the same playing field as you.