Suggesting to the Wife

Too many things are apt to go wrong when it comes to a husband telling/suggesting to the wife about cucking him.  For one thing, I would inform most husbands to always expect the worse the moment they open their mouth explaining to their wives about their innermost desires as with the Cuckold lifestyle. Expect her to look appalled and respond with a flat ‘NO’.  Expect her not to talk to you for the rest of the day; expect her to yell at you never to bring up such subject or topic ever again.

Those things and even more should be expected.  But it mustn’t deter a husband from taking a leap forward with his desires.  How else will he ascertain if he would win or not?

I’m going to make this essay as brief as I possibly can.  I want to cut through all the lengthy talk and see about summarizing most husbands’ plight toward suggesting this Cuckold idea to their wives are hanging on to two determining factors they must take note of.  Those important things are Communication and Environment.

1.  Communication

This is the utmost factor every husband should first and foremost consider.  I say this because plenty of husbands have written to me over the years seeking assistance with getting their wives involved in this lifestyle.  What I never fail to explain to them is that as a Black Master, I’m practically an outsider to their marriage/union.  No movement forward can ever be accomplished if there isn’t some sense of communication established between both spouses . . . that however is negligible if maybe one of the spouses decides to enter into this life with his/herself without alerting the other.  When that happens, then this lifestyle is bound to move in a different direction. 

To maintain the equilibrium of getting the wife and husband involved, couples must already have some sure means of communicative exchange on-going between both.  For most husbands, this is a daunting task.  There are ways to break through it though.  Depending on how strong their bond of communication is, the husband can choose to present this to the wife straight-forward by just telling her, or if he’s that self-aware of how upset she might take such, then he can choose to go a more subtle route.

Whereas the straight-forward route is just what it is, the subtle route can involve him getting to know his wife from a more in-depth level.  He can start by finding out the minor things that arouse her mind: be it a type of book she’s fond of reading, or even what recording artist sets her off.  However he chooses to explore, everything would be an indicative clue as to how to unlock her mind.

Most husbands would have to cultivate a patient mindset as they choose to explore their wives more.  However long it takes is up to them.  Just as they’re investigating, they should as well continue prodding their wives toward this direction.  Drop subtle hints here and there and see how well she takes the bait.  Without ever trying, how else would you expect to find out how easy or how hard she might fall?

2.  Environment

This factor is just as important as the first.  Matter of fact, I would say this factor comes in at a distant second. 

A husband might get achieve a glimmer of curiosity from the wife about deciding to go along with him in exploring this lifestyle . . . but chances of all that falling apart might evolve in the latter part of the action, when he realizes there’s no one around he thinks is suitable enough to finish the work for him.  That can be as a result from the immediate environment that they’re residing.

Often whenever a couple (whether wife or hubby) contacts me to help with means of suggesting such ideas to her/his spouse, one of the typical question(s) I like to ask involves their current location: what city they reside, and if they have any kids or not.  These questions are essential not just for a husband/wife to take note of before deciding to indulge in this life, but as well for the bull to be cognizant of. 

Environment isn’t just about what city the couple dwell in, but also what sort of neighborhood they reside . . . and if they will be able to make the required sacrifice of wanting to indulge in this lifestyle without suffering under the roaming gaze of their neighbors . . . or in other words, the eyes of society. 

Couples choosing to enter this lifestyle together should see it more as a lively form of adventure.  Instead of seeing their immediate environment as a deterring factor, they should work toward turning the tables around and make their environment more inviting.  However, should their environment be a more hostile place, then their best means would be to go to where is conducive to enjoy the desires of this lifestyle.  The way I see it, you either invite this lifestyle to you, or you take yourself (and your spouse) to where the lifestyle is free and common.

As with making your environment/home susceptible toward catering to this lifestyle, couples should endeavor toward getting in touch with a Black bull/Master who would be just as willing to come to them.  Whether they choose to find one who resides nearby, or they find one whom they’re willing to transport to come to their location, the choice is up to them.

Summary

This essay isn’t meant just for husbands wanting to entice their wives into becoming one with them in this lifestyle, but as well goes for wives wanting to suggest the same to their husbands.  Whether the couples are married or single and dating, the lifestyle is open to both or either. 

There’s nothing sweeter than a couple that opts to play together, whether the hubby chooses to become a submissive cuck to his wife, or prefers only to share her with other men while he gets his kicks from being a voyeur, the choices to which this lifestyle offers to them is endless.  What matters is that they’re in it together . . . and that they find a bull/Master to complete their erotic circle.

P.S., this article was included in my SHANGOReturns! Vol. 2 magazine.  However, plenty of husbands have written to me numerous times always wanting for assistance with getting their wives to succumb to this lifestyle desires with them.  I’m hoping that by posting this article here will lend some help.

Master SHANGO.